光影时刻

1. 要有远见，只是羡慕那些刚开始薪水就很多的，不见得丫们将来的提升空间会比较你多。刚找到的工作薪水少也要忍受，前提是以后会有更好的机会，在自己应该的年纪拿到应搞的酬劳。另外，要不断的学习，不同的时期有不同的状况要对应。不急不躁，以耐力理智取胜。
2. 找到最根本的目标，我做这份工作的目的是什么，能得到什么，这到底是不是我真正想要的。我适不适合这种工作这个问题，越早解决越好。找到自己想要从事的行业，不仅仅是为了养家糊口，里面有自己的理想，并愿意为之努力。做到这一点，不容易。
3. 要有远见，也要对自己的成见反思。出了国就真的好了？中国以外的天真就那么蓝？得不到的不见得就是是好的，得到的不见得就真的那么不合适，还是那句话，找到自己。
4. Not everyone can cook, but a cook can from anywhere. 这样的励志名言还是要理性的面对，要不可能的任务你也得有糖糕鲁斯的身手和团队才行。对自己水平和实力的正确把握，目标过高不可取，目标过低了你也不想委屈自己。
5. 埋怨现时的不开心，也要考虑围墙外虚拟的开心，以及跳入另一个围墙后所要担当的风险和责任。
6. 逆境的时间或许比你想象的要更久，别无他法，等待，这也算是一种修炼吧。
7. 干一行，爱一行。适者生存，跟对人的眼力，一定要有。
8. 选择这种这哲学命题，还是交给龌龊四级兄弟来解释吧。
9. 貌似做销售员也是有前景的，但是学习商科可不一定哦。

谈话出处：HP 大中华区总裁孙振耀的退休感言

前几天翻看几篇所谓日化产品“内幕”之后，组团让人代购了一批诸如海鸥蜂花这样的东西回来。瓶子还是小时候的瓶子，味道也依旧是小时候的味道。这些东西不像那些与时俱进不断变换的小儿游戏，似乎始终以一种亘古的姿态和包装屹立在哪里，在货架上等着国人重新领会化学的内涵那一天重新回归国货的怀抱。

通常情况下，这样的时候，必不可少的节目环节就是，大家顺其自然的由这些洗发水护发素说开去，一次一次又一次的缅怀各自贫瘠忐忑的童年和无尽的纯真欢乐。可悲滴素，偶实在没有这个劲头鸟。这样的事情在我的历史上的确存在发生过，我记得很清楚那是一个晚自修，我能记得那是高二的某个夏天，我甚至能记得有谁参与了那次会晤。在我破碎不堪记忆力力奇差脑神经元中，会有这样的记录对我来说简直就是遇到了神谕。不过，我科学的认为，是在那次之后，我再也没有和别人谈论类似话题的想法和冲动了。

这几年总有一批自称70后80后的人想尽各种办法，把自己小时候那些犄角旮旯里的东西翻出来，变着法的摆到你面前声称这就是一你这代人的回忆，还说，就让我们集体怀旧吧。很多时候我看见这些东西都立马跳过，那些小时候的东西再的确珍贵不可复得，可总是有人跟你提，终归还是会烦。我不愿意一次一次又一次的回忆星矢的天马流星拳和赐给我力量的希曼，这让我看到现在孩子可以看到PIXAR所有牛逼的动画片的时候，产生强烈的畸形的心里很不平衡的嫉妒，我怎么就那么生不逢时吖。

这不是最可悲的，更可悲的是，除了嫉妒和努力不想去想那些小时候细碎的各种感觉，就是我现在很难再有感觉了。这种话说起来当然是要负责的，所有新的境遇言语气味还是声音画面，都能让我迅速想起某一种小时候的感觉。夜里路灯下前者外婆的手从电影院回家，乡村集会里的走失和爷爷奶奶找到时焦急的眼光，午睡醒来艳黄的秋日和拌好的糖水番茄。。。。。。要把这些说完估计我已经把人生又过一遍了。

话题似乎又回到了那个原点：人生就是不断的重复。最早的记忆以不同的形式和时间不断地在即刻闪回，一直到某种状态，你感觉自己充其量不过是一个改装版的楚门。楚门最终还是找到自己的真爱控制自己的人生走出那个怪圈，那种生活，是很多人不愿意的，大家还是愿意去体味这个世界的味道，不断地探索发现，最终找到自己。

找到自己，天内，这是一个多么大的话题。外面的世界尽管不可预测，一颗对自己邦定的信念，理想的风风雨雨，都也最终不过如此。原来，所有的过去都只不过是一个畸形的窠臼，自己曾被领入其中，做了一个走不出的小蝼蚁。

困了，头重脚轻，此时改日再议。

Derek: This is the CT for Katie Bryce, 16-year-old female, subarachnoid aneurysm.

Meredith: From a fall during rhythmic gymnastics. I remember.

Derek: It was the first surgery we ever scrubbed in together on, our first save. Right here is a cerebral cyst. Tough save, but we did it. I kissed you in the stairwell after the surgery. And this right here is where Dr. Bailey kicked you out of the surgery because she caught us in your driveway in my car. And right here--this is a 7-hour craniotomy, and you held the clamp the entire time, never flinched. That’s when I knew you were gonna being an incredible surgeon. And Beth Monroe, who made our clinical trial a success by surviving. You talked me into putting her under. That's when I knew I needed you. And this is today, post-op head CT of Izzie Stevens. You see that? Tumor free. Because of you. You got me into the O.R. If there's a crisis, you don't freeze. You move forward. You get the rest of us to move forward, because you've seen worse, you've survived worse. And you know we'll survive, too. You say you're all... dark and twisty, But that's not a flaw. It's a strength. It makes you who you are. I'm not gonna get down on one knee. I'm not gonna ask a question. I love you, Meredith Grey. And I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

Meredith: And I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

Watch this clip form Grey's Anatomy S05E19 via here.

S01E01: A Hard Day's Night
MEREDITH: "I can't think of a single reason why I should be a surgeon, but I can think of a thousand reasons why I should quit. They make it hard on purpose. There are lives in our hands. There comes a moment when it's more than just a game, and you either take that step forward or turn around and walk away. I could quit, but here's the thing. I love the playing field."

S01E02: The First Cut is the Deepest
MEREDITH: "At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular."

S01E05: Shake Your Groove Thing 
MEREDITH: "Responsibility. It really does suck. Unfortunately, once you get past the age of braces and training bras, responsibility doesn't go away. It can't be avoided. Either someone makes us face it or we suffer the consequences. And still adulthood has it perks. I mean the shoes, the sex, the no parents anywhere telling you what to do. That's, pretty damn good."

S01E06: If Tomorrow Never Comes
MEREDITH: "The early bird catches the worm; a stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we haven't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to ‘seize the day'. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore, until we finally understand for ourselves like Benjamin Franklin meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying."

S01E08: Save Me
MEREDITH: "But the thing is, it’s hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely, because almost everyone has that smallest bit of faith and hope that one day they would open their eyes and it would all come true. At the end of the day, faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don’t really expect it. It’s like one day you realize that the fairy tale is slightly different than your dream. The castle, well it may not be a castle. And it’s not so important that it’s happily ever after -- just that it’s happy right now. See, once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you. And once in awhile, people may even take your breath away."

S01E09: Who's Zooming Who? 
MEREDITH: "The thing people forget is how good it can feel when you finally set secrets free. Whether good or bad, at least they're out in the open, like it or not. And once your secrets are out in the open, you don't have to hide behind them anymore. The problem with secrets is even when you think you're in control, you're not."

到后来，终于明白，其实不管是哪条路，只要自己用心的去走，都会有广阔未来。

可悲的是，在最开始，是没有人相信这个道理的。

抱怨现在，怀恨过去。费尽心思，查遍所有信息，用尽所有手段，试图找到一条看上去更为光明的路。

到后来，蓦然回头看才发现，其实最初的选择，如果到现在，已经是另一番宽广天地。

世上没有后悔药。

能接受教训的，走好现在。

永远不要相信所有看上去正确的指导，相信其实世界更宽广。